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<\/p>\n\u015eubat ay\u0131, Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn de etkisiyle ili\u015fkilerin en \u00e7ok konu\u015fuldu\u011fu d\u00f6nemlerden biri. Ancak bu atmosfer herkes i\u00e7in romantik bir heyecan anlam\u0131na gelmiyor. Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019nden bunalanlar, yaln\u0131z olanlar ya da ili\u015fkisi olsa bile beklentileri kar\u015f\u0131lanmayan ki\u015filer i\u00e7in bu d\u00f6nem \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sorgulamalarla ge\u00e7iyor.<\/p>\n
Payla\u015f\u0131lan verilere g\u00f6re 14 \u015eubat yakla\u015f\u0131rken T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de kullan\u0131c\u0131lar yaln\u0131zca klasik romantik planlara de\u011fil; kendileriyle, arkada\u015flar\u0131yla ya da farkl\u0131 deneyimlerle vakit ge\u00e7irmeye d\u00f6n\u00fck aramalara da y\u00f6neliyor. \u201cSevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc film\u201d aramalar\u0131ndaki art\u0131\u015f, yaln\u0131z ge\u00e7irilen ak\u015famlar\u0131n ya da ki\u015fisel molalar\u0131n da g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr bir tercihe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6steriyor. Deneyim odakl\u0131 aramalar\u0131n \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 ise Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn tek bir kal\u0131ba s\u0131\u011fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na i\u015faret ediyor.<\/p>\n
Hediye taraf\u0131nda da \u201cel eme\u011fi\u201d dikkat \u00e7ekiyor. Kendin yap (DIY) i\u00e7eriklerinin ve \u00f6rg\u00fc modelleri gibi \u00fcretim odakl\u0131 aramalar\u0131n y\u00fckseli\u015fe ge\u00e7mesi, jestlerin pahal\u0131 hediyelerden \u00e7ok \u201ceme\u011fe\u201d kayd\u0131\u011f\u0131na dair bir sinyal olarak okunuyor. Arkada\u015f gruplar\u0131n\u0131n birlikte kutlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201cGalentine\u2019s Day\u201d gibi ba\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n da artmas\u0131, Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn romantik ili\u015fki eksenini a\u015farak arkada\u015fl\u0131klara ve bireysel iyi olu\u015fa alan a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n
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Ki\u015fisel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ve ili\u015fki dinamikleri \u00fczerine \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131yla tan\u0131nan yazar ve ileti\u015fim ment\u00f6r\u00fc Seda Diker<\/strong>, ili\u015fkilerde ya\u015fanan dengesizliklerin \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u201cyanl\u0131\u015f yerden yap\u0131lan se\u00e7imlerle\u201d ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtiyor. Diker\u2019e g\u00f6re yaln\u0131zca g\u00fc\u00e7, stat\u00fc, fiziksel \u00f6zellikler ya da maddi imk\u00e2nlar \u00fczerinden kurulan ili\u015fkiler, zamanla sevginin do\u011fal ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bozuyor; ili\u015fki adeta \u201czorla ya\u015fat\u0131lmaya\u201d \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan bir yap\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febiliyor.<\/p>\n Diker, do\u011fas\u0131 uyumlu iki insan bir araya geldi\u011finde ise katk\u0131 sunman\u0131n ekstra bir \u00e7abaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmedi\u011fini, alma\u2013verme dengesinin daha do\u011fal \u015fekilde olu\u015ftu\u011funu ifade ediyor.<\/p>\n Seda Diker, \u201cBize uygun olan ki\u015fi kim?\u201d sorusunun yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015f kriterlerde de\u011fil, ki\u015finin i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda sakl\u0131 oldu\u011funu savunuyor. Diker\u2019e g\u00f6re do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi hayat\u0131m\u0131za almak kadar, do\u011fru ili\u015fkiyi hayat\u0131m\u0131za \u201c\u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmay\u0131\u201d \u00f6\u011frenmek de \u00f6nemli ve bu yol, ki\u015finin kendi \u00f6z\u00fcne yani otantik haline yakla\u015fmas\u0131yla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/p>\n Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6zetleyen mesaj\u0131 ise \u015f\u00f6yle: \u201cKendi otantik haliniz olmaya s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131ya tutunun ve i\u00e7 duygunuzu \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrde tutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Diker, Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcndemini \u201cdenge, uyum ve i\u00e7sel b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fck\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131yla ele almak \u00fczere 12 \u015eubat Per\u015fembe 21.00\u201322.00<\/strong> saatleri aras\u0131nda \u201cSevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc Modundan S\u0131k\u0131lanlar\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla Instagram canl\u0131 yay\u0131n\u0131 yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 duyurdu.<\/p>\n Yazar\u0131n, \u0130nk\u0131lap Kitabevi\u2019nden \u00e7\u0131kan \u201cAsl\u0131nda Giden Erken Yoktur!\u201d<\/strong> ve \u201cAsl\u0131nda Ayr\u0131l\u0131k da Yoktur!\u201d<\/strong> kitaplar\u0131nda da ili\u015fkilerde denge temas\u0131n\u0131 merkeze ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ifade edildi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" 14 \u015eubat yakla\u015f\u0131rken a\u015fk ve ili\u015fkiler yeniden g\u00fcndemin merkezine yerle\u015fti. Yazar ve ileti\u015fim ment\u00f6r\u00fc Seda Diker, ili\u015fkilerde en s\u0131k g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7an dinami\u011fin \u201calma\u2013verme dengesi\u201d oldu\u011funu vurgulayarak, yaln\u0131zca g\u00fc\u00e7, stat\u00fc ya da maddi imk\u00e2n \u00fczerinden kurulan ba\u011flar\u0131n zamanla ki\u015fiyi \u201cs\u00fcrekli veren ama kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 alamayan\u201d bir noktaya ta\u015f\u0131yabilece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":6458,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[1590,1592,1591,385],"class_list":["post-6457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yasam","tag-iliskiler","tag-kisiselgelisim","tag-sedadiker","tag-sevgililergunu"],"yoast_head":"\n\u201cBize uygun ki\u015fi\u201d sorusu ve otantiklik vurgusu<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n12 \u015eubat\u2019ta Instagram canl\u0131 yay\u0131n\u0131<\/h3>\n