Ya\u015flanman\u0131n yaln\u0131zca fiziksel de\u011fi\u015fimlerden ibaret olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten Klinik Psikolog Tu\u011f\u00e7e Tun\u00e7el, bu d\u00f6nemde ki\u015finin ya\u015fam\u0131ndaki rollerini, ili\u015fkilerini ve kendilik alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yeniden de\u011ferlendirdi\u011fini ifade etti.<\/p>\n
Emeklilik, e\u015f veya arkada\u015f kayb\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n evden ayr\u0131lmas\u0131 ve fiziksel kapasitedeki de\u011fi\u015fimlerin ya\u015fl\u0131 bireylerin psikolojik d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 etkileyebildi\u011fini kaydeden Tun\u00e7el, yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, kayg\u0131, de\u011fersizlik ve \u00e7aresizlik duygular\u0131n\u0131n ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n yaln\u0131zca sorunlarla tan\u0131mlanmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini vurgulayan Tun\u00e7el, ya\u015fam deneyiminin baz\u0131 bireylerde kabullenme, duygusal olgunluk ve hayata anlam verme becerisini de g\u00fc\u00e7lendirebildi\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n
Ailelerin iyi niyetle sergiledi\u011fi a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 korumac\u0131 tutumlar\u0131n olumsuz sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furabilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7eken Tun\u00e7el, ya\u015fl\u0131 bireyin yapabildi\u011fi i\u015fleri s\u00fcrekli \u00fcstlenmenin ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k ve yeterlilik duygusunu zay\u0131flatabilece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
Tun\u00e7el, ger\u00e7ekten yard\u0131ma ihtiya\u00e7 duyulan alanlarda destek verilmesi gerekti\u011fini ancak bireyin yapabilece\u011fi i\u015flerin elinden al\u0131nmamas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu ifade ederek, \u201cBen yapay\u0131m\u201d yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 yerine \u201c\u0130stersen birlikte yapabiliriz\u201d denilmesinin daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaydetti.<\/p>\n
Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireyin kendi ya\u015fam\u0131yla ilgili konularda fikrinin al\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemine i\u015faret eden Tun\u00e7el, ki\u015finin ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ilerlemesinin karar verme hakk\u0131n\u0131n otomatik olarak ailesine ge\u00e7ti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmedi\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n
S\u00fcrekli olarak ya\u015fl\u0131 bireyin yerine karar verilmesinin k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k, \u00f6fke, de\u011fersizlik ve geri \u00e7ekilme duygular\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131rabilece\u011fini ifade eden Tun\u00e7el, temel yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n \u201conun i\u00e7in karar vermek\u201d de\u011fil, \u201conunla birlikte karar vermek\u201d olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
Bili\u015fsel kapasiteyi etkileyen \u00f6zel durumlarda profesyonel de\u011ferlendirme gerekebilece\u011fini belirten Tun\u00e7el, bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ya\u015f\u0131n tek ba\u015f\u0131na bireyin s\u00f6z hakk\u0131n\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n
Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireyin yaln\u0131zca bak\u0131m alan ki\u015fi olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmemesi gerekti\u011fini belirten Tun\u00e7el, aile ve sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131n aktif bir \u00fcyesi olarak kalmas\u0131n\u0131n psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
Birlikte yemek yemek, sohbet etmek, y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fe \u00e7\u0131kmak, arkada\u015flarla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyi kolayla\u015ft\u0131rmak ve ilgi duyulan etkinliklere kat\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 desteklemek gibi basit ad\u0131mlar\u0131n \u00f6nemli katk\u0131 sa\u011flayabilece\u011fini ifade etti.<\/p>\n
Tun\u00e7el, \u00f6zellikle ki\u015finin istemedi\u011fi halde sosyal ili\u015fkilerinden uzakla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc, kayg\u0131, i\u00e7e kapanma ve ya\u015famdan al\u0131nan keyfin azalmas\u0131yla ili\u015fkili olabilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n
Ailelerin ya\u015fl\u0131 yak\u0131nlar\u0131na neye ihtiya\u00e7 duyduklar\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frudan sormas\u0131n\u0131n daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirten Tun\u00e7el, \u201cNeye ihtiyac\u0131n var?\u201d, \u201cBunu kendin yapmak ister misin?\u201d ve \u201cNas\u0131l destek olabilirim?\u201d gibi ifadelerin tercih edilmesini \u00f6nerdi.<\/p>\n
Ya\u015fl\u0131 bireyle y\u00fcksek sesle, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 yava\u015f veya \u00e7ocukla konu\u015fur gibi ileti\u015fim kurulmas\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten Tun\u00e7el, yeti\u015fkin bir bireyle konu\u015fur gibi do\u011fal ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 bir dil kullan\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini kaydetti.<\/p>\n
Tun\u00e7el, ya\u015fl\u0131 bireye verilebilecek en \u00f6nemli deste\u011fin, onun yerine hayat\u0131 ya\u015famak de\u011fil, yapabildiklerine g\u00fcvenerek ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilmesi i\u00e7in yan\u0131nda olmak oldu\u011funu ifade etti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
1 Ekim D\u00fcnya Ya\u015fl\u0131lar G\u00fcn\u00fc kapsam\u0131nda yap\u0131lan de\u011ferlendirmelerde, ailelerin ya\u015fl\u0131 yak\u0131nlar\u0131na destek olurken a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 korumac\u0131 davranmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi vurguland\u0131. Klinik Psikolog Tu\u011f\u00e7e Tun\u00e7el, ya\u015fl\u0131 bireyin yapabildi\u011fi i\u015fleri s\u00fcrekli onun yerine yapman\u0131n zamanla \u201cBen art\u0131k hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi yapam\u0131yorum\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini g\u00fc\u00e7lendirebilece\u011fini belirterek, karar s\u00fcre\u00e7lerine kat\u0131l\u0131m\u0131n ve sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131n s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclmesinin psikolojik iyi olu\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":53061,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[16293,16129,16271],"class_list":["post-53060","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-saglik","tag-aile-destegi","tag-psikolojik-iyi-olus","tag-yaslilik"],"yoast_head":"\n