{"id":44245,"date":"2026-08-16T22:19:24","date_gmt":"2026-08-16T19:19:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.merceknet.com\/tr\/?p=44245"},"modified":"2026-08-16T22:19:24","modified_gmt":"2026-08-16T19:19:24","slug":"baskalarini-kurtarirken-kendinizi-ihmal-etmeyin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.merceknet.com\/tr\/2026\/08\/16\/baskalarini-kurtarirken-kendinizi-ihmal-etmeyin\/","title":{"rendered":"Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 Kurtar\u0131rken Kendinizi \u0130hmal Etmeyin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Herkese yeti\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken kendinize ge\u00e7 kalmay\u0131n. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130yilik ile kendini t\u00fcketmek aras\u0131ndaki ince \u00e7izgiyi ne zaman unuttuk?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Toplum bize y\u0131llard\u0131r g\u00fczel bir insan olman\u0131n tarifini \u00f6\u011fretiyor: kimseyi \u00fczmeyin, k\u0131rmay\u0131n, alttan al\u0131n, sabredin, fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k yap\u0131n, g\u00f6n\u00fcl al\u0131n, idare edin\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar\u0131n hepsi k\u0131ymetli de\u011ferler.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat bir noktay\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman unutuyoruz:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130yi insan olmak, kendini yok saymak de\u011fildir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00d6yle bir hayat d\u00fczeni kurduk ki bazen \u201chay\u0131r\u201d diyebilen insan bencil, s\u0131n\u0131r koyan insan so\u011fuk, hakk\u0131n\u0131 arayan insan ge\u00e7imsiz, kendini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen insan da egoist ilan edilebiliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa insan\u0131n ruhunun da bir s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcrekli veren, s\u00fcrekli anlayan, s\u00fcrekli affeden, s\u00fcrekli susan insan\u0131n i\u00e7inde g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bir yorgunluk birikir. Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta bunu fark etmez. \u201cBir \u015fey olmaz.\u201d der. Sonra \u201cBen idare ederim.\u201d der. Ard\u0131ndan ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc kendi sorumlulu\u011fu gibi ta\u015f\u0131maya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>Ve bir g\u00fcn kendi hayat\u0131nda misafir oldu\u011funu fark eder.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 en sona b\u0131rakan insan, zamanla kendisini de hayat\u0131n\u0131n en sonuna b\u0131rak\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bunun psikolojik bir bedeli vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcrekli bast\u0131r\u0131lan k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar, ifade edilmeyen \u00f6fke, kar\u015f\u0131lanmayan ihtiya\u00e7lar ve s\u00f6ylenemeyen \u201chay\u0131r\u201dlar insan\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda a\u011f\u0131rla\u015f\u0131r. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan sakin g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bir insan, i\u00e7eride b\u00fcy\u00fck bir m\u00fccadele veriyordur.<\/p>\n<p>Toplum ise \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sadece g\u00f6r\u00fcneni alk\u0131\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNe kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, sab\u0131rl\u0131, her \u015feye yeti\u015fiyor, hi\u00e7 \u015fik\u00e2yet etmiyor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Oysa <strong>\u201c<\/strong><strong>g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc\u201d dedi\u011fimiz insan, yaln\u0131zca yorulmaya hakk\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in susuyordur.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Burada aileden topluma kadar uzanan bir meseleyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n beklentileriyle ya\u015farken kendi hayat\u0131 ka\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkilerde yaln\u0131zca sevgi de\u011fil, <strong>s\u0131n\u0131r<\/strong> da vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131n\u0131r koymak insanlar\u0131 d\u0131\u015flamak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Tam tersine, ili\u015fkinin nerede ba\u015flay\u0131p nerede bitti\u011fini bilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBuraya kadar, kabul etmiyorum.\u201d diyebilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u015eu anda buna g\u00fcc\u00fcm yok.\u201d diyebilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Gerekti\u011finde kimseyi su\u00e7lamadan uzakla\u015fabilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkiyi kurtarmak sadece sizin g\u00f6reviniz de\u011fildir. En sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u015fey, elinden geleni yapt\u0131ktan sonra geri \u00e7ekilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dcstelik bunu yaparken su\u00e7luluk duymak zorunda da de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Vicdan sahibi olmak, herkesin vicdans\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 telafi etmek anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n<p>Merhametli olmak, kendinize merhametsiz davranman\u0131z\u0131 gerektirmez.<\/p>\n<p>Fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k g\u00fczeldir; fakat s\u00fcrekli tek tarafl\u0131ysa art\u0131k fedak\u00e2rl\u0131ktan \u00e7ok <strong>kendini t\u00fcketmeye<\/strong> d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcrekli sizin anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131za ihtiya\u00e7 duyan ama sizi anlamaya hi\u00e7 \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermeyen bir ili\u015fkide denge var m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Her hatas\u0131nda \u00f6z\u00fcr dileyip ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcren insan ger\u00e7ekten de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f midir?<\/p>\n<p>Bazen cevaplar can\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ac\u0131t\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ama hakikat, bizi rahatlatmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil; <strong>uyand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in vard\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131 kaybetmekten korkarken kendimizi kaybetmemeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>Yaln\u0131z kalmak ile yanl\u0131\u015f insanlarla kalmak aras\u0131nda\u00a0 fark vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k bazen insan\u0131n kendisini yeniden duydu\u011fu sessizliktir.<\/p>\n<p>Yanl\u0131\u015f bir kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde insan, kendi sesini bile kaybedebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden kendinize \u015fu soruyu zaman zaman sorun:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201c<\/strong><strong>Ben bunu ger\u00e7ekten istedi\u011fim i\u00e7in mi yap\u0131yorum, yoksa birilerini kaybetmemek i\u00e7<\/strong><strong>in mi?<\/strong><strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan her \u015feyi kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcyle \u00e7\u00f6zmek zorunda de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen hayat\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fc a\u011f\u0131rla\u015f\u0131r. \u0130nsan ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilemez. En g\u00fcvendi\u011fi kap\u0131lar kapan\u0131r, en yak\u0131n bildikleri uzakla\u015f\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte o zaman insan\u0131n yaln\u0131zca kendisine de\u011fil, <strong>Rabbine de d<\/strong><strong>\u00f6nmesi gerekir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dertle\u015fmek i\u00e7in mutlaka bir insan aramak zorunda de\u011filsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Duan\u0131z, secdeniz, var<\/p>\n<p>Sessizce a\u00e7abilece\u011finiz bir g\u00f6n\u00fcl kap\u0131s\u0131 var.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Yaradan sizi her daim bekler.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7inizden ge\u00e7enleri O\u2019na anlat\u0131n. K\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, korkunuzu, \u00e7aresizli\u011finizi, beklentinizi\u2026 \u0130nsanlara s\u00f6yleyemediklerinizi Rabbinize s\u00f6yleyin.<\/p>\n<p>Elinizden geleni yap\u0131n; gerisini O\u2019na havale edin.<\/p>\n<p>insan\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fc s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Allah\u2019\u0131n kudreti s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu teslimiyet, hayattan ka\u00e7mak de\u011fildir. Tam tersine, insan\u0131n elinden geleni yapt\u0131ktan sonra kalbini gereksiz bir y\u00fckten kurtarmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Belki de huzurun \u00f6nemli bir s\u0131rr\u0131 burada sakl\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Her <\/strong><strong>\u015feyi kontrol etmek zorunda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kabul etmek.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kendinize yeniden bir hayat kurabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte \u00e7ok sustuysan\u0131z konu\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ok verdiyseniz kendinize ay\u0131rabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Hep affettiyseniz art\u0131k s\u0131n\u0131r koyabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Herkese yeti\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131ysan\u0131z biraz durabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llard\u0131r ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131nda kaplad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yerde, ilk defa kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131zda kendinize bir sandalye \u00e7ekebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu bencillik de\u011fildir, kendine sayg\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130yi olmak ba\u015fka, kullan\u0131labilir olmak ba\u015fkad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sab\u0131rl\u0131 olmak ba\u015fka, haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa mahk<\/strong><strong>\u00fb<\/strong><strong>m olmak ba\u015fkad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Affetmek ba\u015fka, ayn\u0131 ac\u0131ya yeniden kap\u0131 a\u00e7mak ba\u015fkad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k ba\u015fka, kendini feda etmek bamba\u015fkad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n beklentilerine g\u00f6re de\u011fil, vicdan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n, akl\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ve de\u011ferlerinizin rehberli\u011finde ya\u015fay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Herkesi memnun edemeyeceksiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes sizi anlamayacak.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 sizi yanl\u0131\u015f tan\u0131yacak. Bazan insan\u0131n huzuru, herkesin kendisi hakk\u0131nda do\u011fru d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesini sa\u011flamaktan de\u011fil, <strong>kendisinin kim oldu\u011funu bilmesinden<\/strong> ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n<p>Ve g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize \u015fu c\u00fcmleyi s\u00f6yleyebiliyorsan\u0131z, do\u011fru bir yerde duruyorsunuz demektir:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201c<\/strong><strong>Ben elimden geleni yapt\u0131m. Kimseye k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck etmedim. Vicdan\u0131m\u0131 korudum. Kendimi de art\u0131k ihmal etmeyece\u011fim.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte ger\u00e7ek olgunluk biraz da budur.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na iyi gelirken kendinize zarar vermemek\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Severken kendinizi unutmamak\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Merhamet ederken kendi kalbinizi de korumak\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gerekti\u011finde<\/strong> <strong>kendi i\u00e7inizdeki korkulara kar\u015f\u0131 \u201cyeter\u201d diyebilmek.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n bu hayattaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorumluluklar\u0131ndan biri de kendisine emanettir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kendinizi t<\/strong><strong>\u00fcketmeden iyilik yap\u0131n, kaybetmeden sevin.<\/strong><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><strong>Kendinizi ezmeden affedin, feda etmeden fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k yap\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ne olursa olsun, i\u00e7iniz darald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcne bakmay\u0131 unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Her y\u00fck insan omzunda ta\u015f\u0131nmaz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 y\u00fckler duayla b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 yaralar zamanla iyile\u015fir.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 kap\u0131lar kapan\u0131r ki insan yanl\u0131\u015f yerde beklemekten kurtulsun.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 vedalar, insan\u0131n kendisine yeniden kavu\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kendinizi kaybetmeden iyi insan kal\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnyaya verebilece\u011finiz en g\u00fczel \u015fey, t\u00fckenmi\u015f bir insan de\u011fil; <strong>kalbi iyilikle dolu, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 bilen, ruhu huzurlu ve Rabbine g\u00fcvenen bir insan olmakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Herkese yeti\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken kendinize ge\u00e7 kalmay\u0131n. \u0130yilik ile kendini t\u00fcketmek aras\u0131ndaki ince \u00e7izgiyi ne zaman unuttuk? Toplum bize y\u0131llard\u0131r g\u00fczel bir insan olman\u0131n tarifini \u00f6\u011fretiyor: kimseyi \u00fczmeyin, k\u0131rmay\u0131n, alttan al\u0131n, sabredin, fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k yap\u0131n, g\u00f6n\u00fcl al\u0131n, idare edin\u2026 Bunlar\u0131n hepsi k\u0131ymetli de\u011ferler. 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