\u201cOnun niye var da benim yok?\u201d, \u201cBen daha \u00e7ok hak etmiyor muydum?\u201d, \u201cNeden hep ba\u015fkalar\u0131 mutlu?\u201d\u2026 G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131n\u0131n zihnini kemiren bu sorular, asl\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bir ruh yaras\u0131n\u0131n habercisidir. \u0130nsan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131na bak\u0131p kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131 eksik g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anda huzurunu da kaybetmeye ba\u015flar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u0131yas, bir \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc de\u011fil; insan\u0131n kendi kalbine ak\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131 sessiz bir zehirdir.<\/p>\n
K\u0131yas\u0131n tarihi insanl\u0131k kadar eskidir. \u0130lk k\u0131yas, \u015feytan\u0131n Hz. \u00c2dem\u2019e bak\u0131p, \u201cBen ate\u015ften yarat\u0131ld\u0131m, o ise topraktan.\u201d demesiyle ba\u015flad\u0131. \u0130lk kibir, ilk isyan ve ilk d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015f\u2026 Demek ki k\u0131yas, yaln\u0131zca insan\u0131 mutsuz eden bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k de\u011fil; hakikati \u00f6rten, insan\u0131 kendine yabanc\u0131la\u015ft\u0131ran bir hastal\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn de ayn\u0131 hastal\u0131k farkl\u0131 y\u00fczlerle kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Sosyal medyada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz g\u00f6steri\u015fli hayatlar, l\u00fcks ya\u015famlar, ba\u015far\u0131 hik\u00e2yeleri ve filtrelenmi\u015f mutluluklar, bir\u00e7ok insan\u0131n kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fersiz sanmas\u0131na neden oluyor. Oysa kimse ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ac\u0131y\u0131, borcunu, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, korkular\u0131n\u0131 vitrine koymuyor. \u0130nsan ise g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc birka\u00e7 mutlu kareyi, kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131n tamam\u0131yla k\u0131yasl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
Bunun bedelini en a\u011f\u0131r \u015fekilde ruh \u00f6d\u00fcyor. S\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla kendini kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131ran insan zamanla \u00f6z g\u00fcvenini kaybediyor, yetersizlik duygusuna kap\u0131l\u0131yor, de\u011fersizlik hissiyle bo\u011fu\u015fuyor. Kayg\u0131 bozukluklar\u0131, depresyon, t\u00fckenmi\u015flik sendromu, \u00f6fke kontrol\u00fc sorunlar\u0131 ve hatta yaln\u0131zla\u015fma, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bu yanl\u0131\u015f bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n g\u00f6lgesinde b\u00fcy\u00fcyor. \u0130nsan ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hik\u00e2yesini okuyarak kendi hayat\u0131na h\u00fck\u00fcm vermeye kalk\u0131yor. Oysa herkesin y\u00fck\u00fc, imk\u00e2n\u0131, imtihan\u0131 farkl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Hayat hi\u00e7bir zaman e\u015fit \u015fartlarda ba\u015flamaz. Kimisi varl\u0131k i\u00e7inde sab\u0131rla s\u0131nan\u0131r, kimisi yokluk i\u00e7inde umutla\u2026 Kimine sa\u011fl\u0131k emanet edilir, kimine evlat, kimine ilim, kimine merhamet.<\/p>\n
Birinin bahar\u0131 senin k\u0131\u015f\u0131na denk gelmi\u015f olabilir. Ama hi\u00e7bir mevsim sonsuza kadar s\u00fcrmez. Sab\u0131rla emek veren her y\u00fcrek, vakti geldi\u011finde mutlaka ye\u015ferir.<\/p>\n
K\u0131yas yaln\u0131zca bireyi de\u011fil, toplumu da \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fcr. \u0130nsanlar birbirinin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131na sevinmek yerine onu k\u0131skanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00fcven azal\u0131r, karde\u015flik zay\u0131flar, dayan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n yerini rekabet al\u0131r. T\u00fcketim \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n, bor\u00e7lanman\u0131n, g\u00f6steri\u015f merak\u0131n\u0131n ve ekonomik s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n \u00f6nemli sebeplerinden biri de ba\u015fkas\u0131 gibi ya\u015fama arzusudur. \u0130nsan ihtiyac\u0131 i\u00e7in de\u011fil, ba\u015fkas\u0131ndan geri kalmamak i\u00e7in harcamaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hem cebini hem huzurunu t\u00fcketir.<\/p>\n
Oysa bize sessiz ama b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hakikati f\u0131s\u0131ldar. Hi\u00e7bir ser\u00e7e kartalla yar\u0131\u015fmaz. Hi\u00e7bir kaplumba\u011fa h\u0131zl\u0131 ko\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in utanmaz. Armut a\u011fac\u0131 elma vermedi diye yas tutmaz. Toprakta her \u00e7i\u00e7ek ayn\u0131 renkte olsayd\u0131 bahar\u0131n g\u00fczelli\u011finden s\u00f6z edebilir miydik? K\u00e2inatta \u00e7e\u015fitlilik nas\u0131l bir ahenk olu\u015fturuyorsa, insanlar aras\u0131ndaki farkl\u0131l\u0131klar da hayat\u0131n hikmetidir.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsana d\u00fc\u015fen, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n nasibini saymak de\u011fil; kendi emanetini hakk\u0131yla ta\u015f\u0131makt\u0131r. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn herkes ayr\u0131 bir kader, ayr\u0131 bir imk\u00e2n ve ayr\u0131 bir sorumlulukla yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131, ba\u015fkas\u0131na benzemek de\u011fil; kendinin en iyi h\u00e2line ula\u015fabilmektir.<\/p>\n
Unutmayal\u0131m; k\u0131yas \u015feytandand\u0131r, r\u0131za Rahman\u2019dand\u0131r. \u0130nsan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131na imrenerek de\u011fil, kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131ymetini bilerek huzura kavu\u015fur. \u015e\u00fck\u00fcr kalbi zenginle\u015ftirir, emek insan\u0131 olgunla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r, sab\u0131r ise kaderin en g\u00fczel kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n
K\u0131yas seni k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclt\u00fcr, \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr seni b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr. Ba\u015fkas\u0131 olma, kendin ol; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah seni ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n kopyas\u0131 olas\u0131n diye de\u011fil, e\u015fsiz olas\u0131n diye yaratt\u0131.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u201cOnun niye var da benim yok?\u201d, \u201cBen daha \u00e7ok hak etmiyor muydum?\u201d, \u201cNeden hep ba\u015fkalar\u0131 mutlu?\u201d\u2026 G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131n\u0131n zihnini kemiren bu sorular, asl\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bir ruh yaras\u0131n\u0131n habercisidir. \u0130nsan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131na bak\u0131p kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131 eksik g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anda huzurunu da kaybetmeye ba\u015flar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u0131yas, bir \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc de\u011fil; insan\u0131n kendi kalbine ak\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131 sessiz bir zehirdir. K\u0131yas\u0131n […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":23035,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[87,5764],"class_list":["post-36251","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kose-yazilari","tag-koseyazisi","tag-serifebozoglaneker"],"yoast_head":"\n